Surround Yourself With Greatness

“Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself.” — Unknown

You’ve probably heard the saying that you’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

It’s true - the people around you influence your energy, your mindset, and even your vision of what’s possible.

So take a moment to think about who those five people are for you. Are they encouragers who lift you up and inspire you to grow? Or are they energy-drainers who leave you feeling small, doubtful, or depleted?

Energy Is Contagious — Choose Wisely
Sometimes, you don’t have a choice. You might work with negative people or have family members whose constant criticism feels like a slow leak in your energy tank.

Their negativity can spread like gangrene — creeping quietly until it numbs your hope and ambition.

But here’s what you do have control over:
You get to decide who earns a place in your inner circle. You get to choose whose voices you let into your mind and heart.

Even if you can’t completely avoid toxic people, you can balance their energy by surrounding yourself with those who build you up instead of breaking you down.

Protect Your Energy — And Curate Your Circle
If you have to spend time around small-minded or judgmental people, think of it like putting on emotional armor. Be kind, but guarded. You don’t owe them access to your spirit.

Then, actively seek out the people who inspire you — the dreamers, the doers, the believers. The ones who see your greatness even when you forget it yourself.

These are the people who lead by example — the ones who reach back to pull others up as they climb.

How to Find Your Tribe
If your current circle doesn’t reflect the energy or vision you want for your life, it’s time to expand your connections.

Here are a few ideas:

• Reach out to someone you admire. Invite them for coffee or a virtual chat.
• Join a group or community aligned with your values and goals.
• Get involved and contribute.
• Use technology to your advantage through online communities, Zoom meetups, or social media groups centered on growth and positivity.

Your people, your tribe, are out there. They’re looking for authentic connection too. And when you find each other, magic happens.

Your Call to Action:
This week, take inventory of your relationships.

Ask yourself:

• Who makes me feel energized and encouraged?
• Who drains my energy or diminishes my dreams?
• What can I do to spend more time with those who lift me higher?

Then take one small action to connect with someone who inspires you.

And if you’re ready to intentionally surround yourself with greatness, people who believe in growth, positivity, and purpose, I invite you to join the Success Mastery Community. It’s a place where you’ll be supported, challenged, and celebrated by like-minded achievers who see your greatness, even when you can’t yet see it yourself.

Join the Success Mastery Community and start building your circle of greatness today.