Masterful Mindsets

“Money and success don’t change people; they merely amplify what is already there.” —Will Smith

Let’s talk about one of the most emotionally charged relationships we all have, the one with money.

For many of us, that relationship is complicated. We want more of it, but we also carry guilt, fear, or old beliefs about what it means to have it.

I’ll be honest: I haven’t always had a healthy relationship with money either.

My Old Money Story

I grew up with a father who was born during the Great Depression. He worked incredibly hard for very little. His relationship with money was built on survival, not abundance.

So I grew up hearing all the classic lines:
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
“The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.”
“Money is the root of all evil.”
Sound familiar?

My dad meant well. He passed down what he knew. But his beliefs became my beliefs — and for years, I viewed money through the lens of fear and scarcity.

Until one day, I heard a statement that completely shif...

 “True success is a feeling of happiness and joy.” — Michelle Weimer

If you were going to define success for yourself — not by anyone else’s standards, but truly your own — what would that look like? It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that success means hitting certain milestones: a bigger bank account, a nicer home, a new title, the perfect body, the perfect partner… you know, the Instagram version of life. But behind every shiny picture and social media highlight reel is a deeper truth: success isn’t about how life looks — it’s about how life feels.

The Real Definition of Success
If you’ve ever received an email from me, you’ve probably noticed how I always sign off: “Happiness & Success.” That’s no coincidence. I truly believe the two go hand in hand. Because what’s the point of reaching every goal on your list if you don’t feel fulfilled once you get there? True success isn’t just about having more — it’s about feeling more. More peace. More purpose. More joy. Now, of course, ...

“Focus. Otherwise, you will find life becomes a blur.” ~ Anonymous

If you wear glasses, you know how much easier life feels when you actually put them on. Suddenly, everything comes into focus, crisp, clear, effortless.

Life works the same way. When you have clarity and focus, everything becomes easier. You make better decisions, take more intentional actions, and start seeing progress that actually feels good.

But let’s be honest, it’s easy for life to get blurry. You’re busy. There’s a constant pull for your attention.

And before you know it, you’re looking back wondering where the last year (or ten) went.
So if your vision for your future feels foggy, it’s time to do what I finally had to do: put the glasses on.

The Clarity Confession
I’ll admit it — I fought the whole “needing glasses” thing longer than I care to admit. I’d squint, stretch my arm, adjust the lighting, blame the font size… you name it. Anything to avoid admitting that I couldn’t see clearly on my own. And every t...