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Don't Just Make The List - Live By It!
âWords are just words until you put them into action. Then they can become the character traits that you live by.â ~ Michelle Weimer
Todayâs Masterful Mindset is the last in our mini series on Character. I hope that youâve gotten some clarity about the character traits you most wish to possess.
If youâve been following along the last few weeks, then by now you should have a great list started. But itâs not just about making a list of words, itâs about living by those words.
So, if you donât already have a plan in place for how you will practice those character traits regularly, in order to begin to make them a powerful part of who you are and how you will show up in the world, youâre in luck today.
To end this series, I want to give you a practice that will help you keep those character traits front and center in your mind, which in turn will help you begin to look for opportunities to exhibit them more regularly. (Plus I'm going to give you free access to the app I use for t
...The Gift: Freedom to be Yourself
âThe freedom to be yourself is a gift only you can give yourself. But once you do, no one can take it away.â â Doe Zantamata
Yesterday was the 4th of July, where here in the USA, itâs a time to celebrate our freedom. But for many people, they feel most captive, within. They donât feel they have the freedom to be themselves. So instead of boldly owning who they are and proudly sharing their creative expression of self, they pretend to be someone they are not. Or they hide in the shadows - never bringing their gifts and talents to light. (Maybe you can relate.)
Think about this for a minute⌠How free are you to be yourself, your true self? In everything you do and all your interactions with others, are you expressing yourself freely? If not, why?
Itâs easy to blame others for your lack of freedom and I get it, societal norms can be a real bitch to break free from! But perhaps you hold yourself back more than anyone. Maybe itâs because you donât believe you are enough or you don
...To Persist or to Persevere, that is the QuestionâŚ
"Definition of Insanity - Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result." ~ Albert Einstein
The action of being persistent can often mean you are doing the same thing over and over. Sometimes that can be good but sometimes, not so much. Take for example the analogy IÂ love to give my clients: If you keep putting the same ingredients in your cake, you will keep getting the same cake. If you want a different cake, you have to put in different ingredients. When being persistent with something, it's important to know when enough is enough and you need to try something new to reach your goal. Especially when that cake you're making is really not the cake you want to be eating at all! đ
The illusion that the ability to persist is always a virtue has caused people to stay in toxic relationships with people they donât respect, put up with jobs they hate, and generally just continue to perform the same painful action over and over again, in hopes that it will
...How Do You Show Up In The Face Of Adversity?
"Strength of character isnât always about how much you can handle before you break, itâs also about how much you can handle after youâve broken." â unknown
How do you show up in the face of adversity? Last week I had a conversation with a woman about her life and it shocked me. Her story of struggle was hard to imagine. Sheâs been through so much in her life and yet sheâs warm, loving and kind. Sheâs resilient, faith-filled and strong. Even in spite of all that sheâs going through. I would have never imagined she was in the middle of a lifelong storm.
The truth is, itâs easy to show positive character traits when everything is going good in your life but sometimes the best way to truly know a person is to see how they show up in the face of adversity.
Which is why I want to take our conversation from last week (about how easy it is to assess someoneâs character traits by observing their actions) a step farther and add that how someone shows up in the face of adversity really s
...Are Your Actions Congruent with Your Character?
"The truth of your character is expressed through the choice of your actions." ~ Steve Maraboli
Fatherâs Day is coming up so of course, it always makes me think about my dad. He passed away a few years ago and I miss him dearly. He was a man of great character and his actions always reflected that character. He had integrity. He was honest, hardworking, fair, reliable, responsible, loved his family deeply and he always showed resilience, perseverance and humility in the face of adversity.
Thinking about him, inspired me to share a new Masterful Mindset Series with you on Character. So for the next few weeks, please come along with me and invite others to join us, as we will be focusing on character. Because truly, I think we can all use a little tune-up in this area from time to time.
Character Traits are all the aspects of a person's behavior and attitudes that make up that person's personality. (Think âdescriptive adjectivesâ here.) Everyone has character traits, both good and...
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